It was kind of a rough first day of school for me. Transitioning to a new classroom was/is so very hard for my new kiddo - and by extension, all of the kiddos I've had before - who struggle to understand why their new classmate is so loud and disruptive all day when they have known the routine and rules and expectations of our room for several years already, and just want to get back into the swing of school! Lots of discussions about "he needs help to learn how we do things in our room," and "you can be a good example for him," etc. It took us about twice the time it usually takes to get anything accomplished...Not to mention I (still, at 10:30pm) have a pounding headache from the noise...
Bless my kiddo with severe behavior/anxiety issues, though. I told him early in the morning (when he was already getting tense and agitated by our new class member's noise/not listening/disruption) that the noise and not listening was bothering me, too, and he and I would have to help each other stay calm today. He really took that to heart! He has several self-calming techniques he uses - the most effective are deep breathing ("in through your nose, out through your mouth") and a kind of mantra he says quietly to himself ("calm...calm...calm..."). Several times today he specifically got my attention and then either did his deep breathing or said "calm...calm..." and I did them with him! It really helped - honestly. Those self-calming techniques we teach our kids aren't just for them! And I was just so pleased that my kiddo not only remembered his techniques, but thought of me and even recognized when I had had enough. What a sweetheart. I am going to pull him aside tomorrow morning and thank him for that (of course I thanked him today...but I certainly want to reinforce that behavior!).
Okay...but all you're here for is the Currently, isn't it? I missed August's, so I'm so happy to be back this month!
Loving - I'm a huge fan of fall! The evenings have been cooler lately, and I love it! So does my puppy - he is much happier on our evening walks now!
Thinking - See above. Definitely starting new tomorrow. It's a new day! The first day is always rough -- right?!
Wanting - What teacher couldn't use more hours in the day?!
Needing - Again, see above. I'm really needing a new perspective on things as I go into work tomorrow. Praying for my new kiddo tonight!
Heart - For me, three things I'm going to attempt this month:
1. I had my basement finished over the winter. It's complete, except for the floors. I need to get carpet ordered and installed. This is essential for me, as my new sweetie (Desmond the rescue greyhound) is afraid of the current stairs to the basement. His weird center of gravity and his super long legs make him slide around too much on bare wood stairs and he freaks out. I can't carry a 75-pound dog up the stairs! He navigates the carpeted stairs to my second floor just fine, so all I need to do is carpet the basement, too. Then I could finally use the new basement teacher work area (so fantastic!) as I meant it to be used!
2. Unplug - it's my goal to have one day per week that I don't have the TV, computer, phone, etc. on at all at home. Talk about freedom!
3. New recipes - I love to cook, but I haven't done much of that lately. I'd love to discover - and actually cook - some great new recipes this month. If anyone has favorite recipes to share (vegetarian only - no meat, but dairy, eggs, etc just fine) I'd be so excited to try them out!
All right, this is a crazy-long post - thanks if you've made it this far - bedtime for this girl. Hope everyone's first days (if that was today - hi, Michigan friends!) went well! And link up with Farley's Currently! It's always my favorite linky!